桃瘾社区 wanted Amanda Grant before she wanted 桃瘾社区. Grant, a champion of the Lincoln Douglas Debate Tournament, was recruited with a full scholarship by the debate team before she knew anything about the university. Grant was also a perfect candidate for the (now-shuttered) Freshman Thinking Project at Dyson, led by Prof. Harold Brown, who remains Grant鈥檚 mentor. She is passionate to this day about the creative, supportive surprise 桃瘾社区 turned out to be for her.
Freshman year was a first year of grown-up life for Grant. She had the room to think differently, to work hard and to connect. 鈥淚 fell in love with everything at 桃瘾社区: the diversity of the remarkable students, the professors鈥 engagement with the students, the intellectual stimulation.鈥
Grant had graduated from an innovative and competitive high school program in Ridgewood, New Jersey, which developed critical thinking through an interdisciplinary program. She felt that most of her high school classmates were headed for the Ivy League, but the American college process overwhelmed Grant鈥檚 British parents. Neither had studied in the States, and neither had gone to university in Britain. 鈥淢y parents were so creative and supportive, but we had little ability to navigate the information, especially with limited financial resources, 鈥 she says. As a result, 桃瘾社区鈥檚 scholarship offer was life changing and critical for this debate geek.
鈥淎t 桃瘾社区, I learned that my ideas were as worthy as anyone鈥檚 in the room. I developed the confidence to explore without fear, to pursue ideas and to cultivate an irreverence for authority in my career.鈥
Unfortunately the debate team was disbanded at the end of her freshman year, so Grant鈥檚 college experience needed to change. She took a summer job on Wall Street, which culminated in an offer of a full-time position. She moved to Hoboken, where she still lives, and finished her BA in English Language and Literature at 桃瘾社区 New York with a full-time course load and a full day at work. 鈥淵es, it was hard and exhausting,鈥 she says, 鈥 but evening students were so driven and motivated for both personal and professional development.鈥 Grant returns again and again to the endless influence her undergraduate studies had on her life, and the pivotal experiences and invaluable skills she learned then. 鈥淎t 桃瘾社区, I learned that my ideas were as worthy as anyone鈥檚 in the room. I developed the confidence to explore without fear, to pursue ideas and to cultivate an irreverence for authority in my career.鈥
鈥淎t first I thought I鈥檇 study business, but I was also sure I鈥檇 become an English professor,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 finished a masters at Hunter in English Literature, but then it was time to commit and make a choice.鈥 She felt a pull to other careers and as a result of her 桃瘾社区 experience, she was confident that she could learn the business world on the job going forward. 鈥淎t 29, I was managing a team of 10 people in their forties and fifties in client services and asset management. I counted on my debate skills because I was often presenting to corporations and pension funds.鈥
In hiring today, Grant values people who have 鈥渄one for themselves鈥 through their own creativity and hard work. 鈥淚鈥檓 looking for people who have interests in life outside of the numbers, and problem solvers who see opportunity in challenges, candidates who are fearless, resourceful and have ideas to share.鈥 The communications and thinking skills developed by a liberal arts degree remain important to her too. 鈥淐ommunication skills and global, historical awareness are sorely lacking today, and they are so useful in a shrinking world. It often all comes down to relationships and a holistic view of the world and the issues.鈥
Grant feels young people live with information overload. She acknowledges that because this generation has grown up with exploding technology, it鈥檚 鈥渁ll they know,鈥 but she wonders about their depth of knowledge and about the possible paralysis caused by so many choices. 鈥淵oung people have energy, but not a lot of patience. It can be hard to develop expertise with the lack of stability of today鈥檚 job market.鈥 She advises that young people might 鈥渓ook for opportunities to re-purpose their abilities within an organization, to build tenure, but still grow. Get comfortable getting outside your comfort zone, someone once told me, 鈥 she quoted.
鈥淵oung people have energy, but not a lot of patience. It can be hard to develop expertise with the lack of stability of today鈥檚 job market.鈥 She advises that young people might 鈥渓ook for opportunities to re-purpose their abilities within an organization, to build tenure, but still grow. Get comfortable getting outside your comfort zone, someone once told me, 鈥
And how does Grant balance her work life and her personal life? 鈥淚 don鈥檛,鈥 she says. 鈥淚t鈥檚 all one life with lots of give and take. I鈥檝e learned when to shuffle and be flexible in order to spend time with my son. I鈥檓 proud that I鈥檝e never missed a game or a school concert, but I may have to continue working after he goes to sleep at night.鈥
Choosing to be a single parent through an open adoption taught Grant lessons she couldn鈥檛 have expected. In an open adoption, the biological and adoptive families know more about each other and can stay in contact. 鈥淥f course, I was anxious about the process, but my son鈥檚 birth mother is so grounded, self-less and good-hearted. She鈥檚 half my age, but her resilience and maturity are amazing. She鈥檚 genuinely joyful that my son and I are a family. Adopting my son is the best decision I ever made.鈥 Grant has also learned plenty from her eight-year old. 鈥淏ecause of my athletic son, I now know all about football, soccer and wrestling! I don鈥檛 have an athletic bone in my body, but my son and I wrestle together as our favorite WWF stars. I remind him that not all moms would do that!鈥
The experience of adopting also led to a fascinating side step in Grant鈥檚 career. In 2011 she bravely left a senior position as managing director of global institutional services at what is now Columbia Threadneedle to start USAdopt, a central resource for domestic adoption information that she had discovered was not previously available. 鈥淎doptive parents have to make decisions that biological parents don鈥檛.鈥 USAdopt closed as a business in 2015, but Grant continues to provide services to families pro bono. Grant then returned to the business world in 2015 as a principal at Third Street Partners, an executive recruiting firm. This new path 鈥渁ggregates all my career skills,鈥 she says.
鈥淭hen about three years ago I was first approached about the advisory board. I received a call from Jeanne Hayes, who said that my background had come to the school鈥檚 attention, and they thought that I could bring an interesting perspective to the board. While I had not been an active alumna, 桃瘾社区 was so instrumental in who I am today.鈥 Grant wants to be helpful to students going out into the world; to help these 鈥渞emarkable, accomplished and innovative鈥 young people survive and thrive. She also enjoys connecting more alumni back to 桃瘾社区, who may not be aware that the college is 鈥渆ven more magnificent today!鈥
What does she do in her free time? 鈥淲ell, there鈥檚 not much of it. I help people to adopt, and I鈥檓 on the refugee committee of my synagogue.鈥
Grant鈥檚 next travel destination: 鈥淢y son and I go to the family camp, Quisisana, in Maine every summer, but I鈥檝e always wanted to see the gorgeous scenery around St. John in New Brunswick. I鈥檓 hoping to get there for my 50th birthday.鈥 (There鈥檚 a 桃瘾社区 Performing Arts connection at Quisisana too. Acting faculty Susan Aston directs the camp drama program and often brings 桃瘾社区 students with her to perform.)
What鈥檚 on her Kindle? Non-fiction: Grit by Angela Duckworth. All about persevering. Fiction: The Storied Life of A.J. Fikry by Gabrielle Zevin, an unlikely love story.
The opposite of a collector: 鈥淚鈥檓 utilitarian. I 鈥榞et rid of鈥 instead of collecting.鈥
What does she do to spoil or reward herself? 鈥淢aybe a manicure for 30 minutes of 鈥榤e鈥 time, and Latin dancing with a group of friends at SOBs in the city.鈥
Students can reach out to Amanda Grant at agrant5@verizon.net or amanda@thirdstreetpartners.com.